Here‘s a description of the controversy.

Is this harassment or the free speech exercise of OKCupid?

See my piece, Chill Out: A Qualified Defense of Campaign Finance Disclosure Laws in the Internet Age, 27 Journal of Law and Politics 557 (2012) and

Elian Dashev, Economic Boycotts as Harassment: The Threat to First Amendment Protected Speech in the Aftermath of Doe v. Reed